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Issue #109
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October 2011 - Issue #109
Publisher, Larry James - Author, Speaker, Relationship Coach

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In this issue

•  A Personal Message from Larry James
•  LoveNotes for Lovers
•  Featured Relationship Article - How to Know Your Partner's "Hot Buttons!"
•  Relationship "Book-of-the-Month" - The Power of Focus
•  Relationship Humor
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Tiny Larry James Pic A Personal Message from Larry James:

In healthy love relationships, there is no second place. There is no longer any need to have one of you be number one and one of you be number two. Healthy people share. In a healthy love relationship, generosity expresses itself generously. Love partners are not afraid to share the spotlight.

Give up the idea of having to have any one of the two people who make up a relationship be subservient. When two people really love each other, they are not afraid to be their love partner's equal. Two people, each number one to each other and to the relationship, working together on similar things and accepting mutual responsibility when things are good and also when things are not so good, can only empower the relationship.

You give of yourself to the other. You never give up yourself to the other. When you are both number one, no one ever has to worry about competition in the relationship. When two people work together, they can always accomplish more.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  Affirmation ~ I have come to the realization that what is possible for me to become in my relationship only truly changes when I am willing to see what is impossible for me to continue being.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  Just because we know something doesn't mean anything. Something can never really mean anything until we do something with it. We must do something - whatever it takes - to make our relationships the relationships we love being in. We must always carefully consider what action to take.

Action without thought is only thoughtless action. That rarely works. Knowing this does not mean our relationships will always be great. We have choice. Every choice has a consequence.

The dilemma is this: there are two people. That means we have two people making choices and there are a multitude of choices each of us could make. Each love partner is only and always responsible for their own choices.

Relationships are individual projects first - the one with ourselves - and mutually beneficial projects second - the one with ourselves and our lover. Taking responsibility for our own stuff is a wonderful gift we give ourselves and our love partner. Relationships take our constant attention; every day and every minute. It is when we forget this that problems begin.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  For Men Only ~ When your lover is hurting and tells you so, this is not a request for "Mr. Fix-it." First, she is not broken. Second, always remember, someone who is hurting only needs your love, support and understanding. A warm and tender hug might help. Whisper that you understand and in your best way, let her know she is loved.

From the book, "LoveNotes for Lovers: Words That Make Music for Two Hearts Dancing!" by Larry James

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Larry James is a "solution finder." He is available by telephone for personal relationship coaching for high functioning singles and married couples; people who are committed to "doing" whatever it takes to make their relationships work. Mature people know their relationships can always be better. A healthier love relationship is the goal.

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Read How to Know Your Partner's "Hot Buttons!" - CAUTION: You are about to enter the "Bedroom Zone!" Couples often end up bemused and confused by a marriage that's dimmed in sexual intensity or frequency. Perhaps it's time for a frank, mature, and open discussion about sex and sexual issues. Sex is an important aspect of every marriage. Having sex is a lot easier than talking about it. Most everyone will agree about that, however in order to for you to share what turns you on with your partner, you MUST communicate your likes and dislikes in a playful and healthy way. Someone has to break the ice.

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The Power of Focus - Jack Canfield, Mark Victor Hansen & Les Hewitt - Whether they are corporate professionals, budding entrepreneurs, or they own a home business, most people are looking to achieve more in less time, while earning enough money to live comfortably. This book reveals the proven techniques thousands of people have used to attain all of the money they wanted while living healthy, happy and balanced lives. It is a practical no-nonsense guide that shows readers how to reach their business, personal and financial goals without getting burned out in the process.

Larry's Review: Whatever your goals, this book will help you achieve them. Highly recommended.

The Power of Focus

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Guy Finley's "Key Lessons" - The wisdom and wit of Guy Finley. Don't miss this opportunity to brighten your life! At every regular meeting at Guy's Foundation in southern Oregon, there's a special board in front of the class where the Key Lesson for that meeting is written out for everyone to consider before, during, and after the talk. Book mark this page and return every day for a breath of fresh air & something new to think about!

Sample: Fear and frustration are the negative effects of meeting unwanted moments from an unconscious nature whose dark reaction concludes its painful condition is intransient. Love and patience are positive expressions of an awakening nature that can see that all things under the sun -- regardless of their form -- may be transformed by one's work to understand their arising.

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Relationship Humor

A senior citizen said to his eighty-year old buddy:

"So I hear you're getting Married?"

"Yep!"

"Do I know her?"

"Nope!"

"This woman, is she good looking?"

"Not really."

"Is she a good cook?"

"Naw, she can't cook too well."

"Does she have lots of money?"

"Nope! Poor as a church mouse."

"Well then, is she good in bed?"

"I don't know."

"Why in the world do you want to marry her then?"

"Because she can still drive!"

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Something NEW about Networking is posted every 4th day! There you will find more than 180 Networking articles and tips!

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CelebrateIntimateWeddings.com provides everything you need for a successful wedding; planning checklists, articles, books, custom wedding ceremonies, pre-marital & post-marital coaching and more.

Larry James has been voted "Best Officiant" in the Greater Phoenix area for 2008 by Arizona's Finest Wedding Sites and Services Magazine!

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LoveNote. . . "Thank you for making our special day one we will never forget! Your flexibility and quality of service were exceptional. We would never recommend anyone else. The ceremony was amazing and our guests could not stop talking about it! Thanks Larry!" - Lacey & Jeremy Mejia

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