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December 2011 - Issue #111
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In this issue

•  A Personal Message from Larry James
•  LoveNotes for Lovers
•  Featured Relationship Article - Are You Afraid to be Vulnerable?
•  Relationship "Book-of-the-Month" - How To Really Love The One You're With
•  Relationship Humor
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Tiny Larry James Pic A Personal Message from Larry James:

Forgive and forget is an impossibility. Forgive? Yes! You forgive because it sets you free; the first step toward healing. Forget? No! You always remember. Keep your word. Trust is a fragile issue. A breach of trust is never forgotten.

Be careful of the words you speak in your relationship. They cannot be taken back. Each word will be burned into the memory of your love partner.

Think before you speak. Words create. They either build up or tear down. Speak only words of love. Words can come back to haunt you or they can become the way two lovers express sensitivity, warmth, understanding, acceptance and love.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  The goal of resolving conflict in a relationship is not victory or defeat. It is reaching a mutual understanding through open discussions that benefits both love partners. It requires letting go of our need to be right. Mutually solving problems brings love partners closer together. It allows for negotiation and compromise. It promotes positive momentum.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  True acceptance of your own and each others individuality and separateness is the only foundation upon which a mature, healthy relationship can be based and from which unconditional love can grow.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  Letting go of behavioral patterns that no longer serve us often feels as though we are risking our safety and comfort. Calculated risks taken for the benefit of our own well being are worth taking. This form of movement is safer than standing still. Those who remain stationary become an easy target for misery of their own creation. The energy we expend by holding on often leaves us drained and with a feeling of hopelessness. It takes no strength to let go; only courage. Courage is a byproduct of a positive self- image.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  In reality, anger is a derivative of and an expression of fear. To transcend or master fear, we must turn our back on it; exercise courage. Love cannot exist in the presence of fear. It is impossible for opposites to co-exist. They cannot occupy the same space at the same time. So. . . we drift. Back and forth. Love. Fear. Love. Fear.

We must learn to express love to ourselves and to others in the midst of upsets. Releasing anger in healthy ways proves we are capable of creative acts of wholeness. Healing is always around the corner. It shows up when we have the courage to let go of the anger and fully embrace love.

From the book, "LoveNotes for Lovers: Words That Make Music for Two Hearts Dancing!" by Larry James

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Read "Are You Afraid to be Vulnerable?" - It's all about trust! Simple... but, for most, not easy. Fear keeps you segregated in your own little world. It also inhibits the ability to fully trust. When you can trust you can drop your guard a little. You must learn to trust yourself. It takes courage. Courage is not the absence of fear, it's the ability to overcome it and the ability to manage it. Courage allows yourself to be vulnerable. It allows you to recover the joy of loving. There are those who are so scared of being hurt that they never open themselves up to their partner because of fear, and as a result they avoid love, because they feel they know it will lead to pain and disappointment.

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How To Really Love The One You're With: Affirmative Guidelines For A Healthy Love Relationship - Larry James - This book is a revealing and personally empowering look at self-liberating insights that will assist you in achieving a healthy love relationship anchored in unconditional love. Its' wisdom will inspire you to deeper levels of self-acceptance and understanding. These words of love will benefit anyone; married or single; whether couples already in a committed relationship or singles who may be in search of a healthy love relationship.

Larry's Review: I've written 3 books about personal relationships. This book became my best seller when I was interviewed by Barbara Walters on ABC TV's "The View."

How To Really Love the One You're With

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Sample: To believe that some pressing fear can protect us, as it promises to do whenever we stand before some unwanted situation in our life, is like hoping that a coyote in a chicken coop has the hen's best interests in mind!

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Relationship Humor

An old married couple was at home watching TV. The husband had the remote and was switching back and forth between a fishing channel and the porn channel.

The wife became more and more annoyed and finally said: "For God's sake! Leave it on the porn channel. You already know how to fish!"

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