LoveNote Link
Daily Love Potion
Celebrate Love!

FREE Subscription!
LoveNotes for Lovers eZINE
LoveNotes, tips, articles & more!

Follow Larry James' Relationship Twitter

Larry's Relationship BLOG!

Larry's Wedding BLOG!

Home

Site Map

About Larry James

BookShelf

Larry's Book Store

Relationship Articles MENU

Personal Relationship Coaching

Frequently Asked Questions

Media Press Pass - (For Radio, TV, Magazine, Internet & eZINE Producers & Editors)

Facebook Logo
Twitter Logo
this page to your friends!

Seminars & Keynotes:

Topics

Relationship Enrichment
LoveShop


Making Relationships Work:
Personally and Professionally


The 10 "Commitments"
of Networking


Networking: Making the
Right Connections



QuickLinks to Larry's
Books:


How to Really Love the
One You're With


LoveNotes for Lovers

Red Hot LoveNotes for Lovers


SPECIAL Books for Business

Ten Commitments of Networking

The First Book of LifeSkills


References:

Business Leaders Speak About
Larry James


Church Leaders Speak About
Larry James



Relationship Speakers Network:  Representing:

Dr. John Gray, Ph.D.

Michael Najarian, M.A.


MORE Good Stuff:

Larry James & Barbara Walters

Larry James' Family Fotos

SPECIAL Relationship Pin Offer!

Links to More Relationship Sites

Larry's eMall - Secure eShopping
With Your Mouse!


Special LINKS for:

Authors & Speakers


Search CelebrateLove.com
Google
Use the Google Search Engine to find whatever you want on 750+ pages on CelebrateLove.com!

Click here!

Something NEW:

Celebrate Intimate Weddings LOGO

Larry's Wedding BLOG - Something new about weddings every 4th day!


Issue #116
"LoveNotes for Lovers" e-Zine!

Available by e-mail in text only format.

Join Now!

Celebrate Love!
e-ZINE!

May 2012 - Issue #116
Publisher, Larry James - Author, Speaker, Relationship Coach

You received this issue of "LoveNotes for Lovers" eZINE because you completed the eZINE sign-up at: http://www.CelebrateLove.com/ezine.htm.

If you would rather read this eZINE online, go to: http://www.CelebrateLove.com/ezine116.htm.

In this issue

•  A Personal Message from Larry James
•  LoveNotes for Lovers
•  Featured Relationship Article - What's This About Mid-life Crisis?
•  Relationship "Book-of-the-Month" - Rebuilding When Your Relationship Ends
•  Relationship Humor
•  Bride & Groom-of-the-Month! - View their photo gallery!
•  Guy Finley's "Key Lesson"
•  Daily Love Potion - Served from the CelebrateLove.commissary
•  Contact Information - Tell us what you like best about LoveNotes for Lovers

Tiny Larry James Pic A Personal Message from Larry James:

When in the heat of the battle, always remember: a warm hug cools a slow burn. It may be better to temporarily put aside feelings of anger during misunderstandings and express your love in a silent, close embrace.

It is at times like these, when tempers are flaring, that words can not only fan the flames, they can be like a flash fire; once the fire rages through, there is not much of anything left.

A hug at that moment, would be a shining example of unconditional love. Being angry doesn't mean you are no longer loved or lovable, or that you do not love your love partner.

Love stands on its own. It only needs your constant attention if you want it to grow. While it may be difficult to express love in the middle of no agreement, it is possible.

Imagine a relationship where love partners, in the midst of a disagreement, can agree to a truce long enough to again call attention to the single thing that keeps them together. . . love. Hold one another, if only for a moment. When things cool down, have a warm and loving conversation that again gives birth to the possibility of agreement.

If you can imagine it, you can bring it to pass. What an exciting possibility! Love more quickly heals a slow burn.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  For Women Only - Men tend to grow at their own speed. Unless your love partner is intentional about personal growth, anything you say to help may only cause him to feel that you think he is broken. Right or wrong, men inherently believe they can handle their own stuff.

This may or may not be true, but being insistent about helping him grow can temporarily shut him out of your life. Quit trying to fix him. Be there for him when he is ready to be cared for, otherwise let him be and quietly attend to yourself.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  To have an intimate love relationship, love partners need to feel the freedom to live their lives together in ways that satisfy each of them individually and still meet each others needs.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  Open and intimate conversation is the only way you can avoid the mistake of only giving what you would like to receive instead of giving what your love partner really needs. Negotiate for what you both want and need and respect the differences.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  When you have disagreements, watch for the appropriate opportunity to share what is really in your heart. Little, if any progress can be made during meltdown. Allow a time for cooling off. This is a time when you must work together to create a space for each love partner to express their feelings without any fear that it isn't safe to do so. Listen. Communicate. Give up your attachment to being right and settle for a win/win solution that serves both love partners equally.

From the book, "LoveNotes for Lovers: Words That Make Music for Two Hearts Dancing!" by Larry James

Sample more LoveNotes: http://www.CelebrateLove.com/lovenote.shtml

Are you still in harmony with each other?

2 cats singing Larry james offers Relationship Coaching for both singles who want a committed relationship, and couples who need help regaining that closeness they once felt in their relationship, or who want to deepen their levels of intimacy.

Larry James is a "solution finder." He is available by telephone for personal relationship coaching for high functioning singles and married couples; people who are committed to "doing" whatever it takes to make their relationships work. Mature people know their relationships can always be better. A healthier love relationship is the goal.

Call Larry James for a very private relationship coaching session and experience lots of "a-ha's!" Call for a daytime or evening coaching appointment - Call 480-998-9411. Larry lives in Scottsdale, AZ. Check out Larry's Personal Guarantee! Results may include an increased passion for Love and romance!

The fringe benefit? A more loving, peaceful, happy relationship. Larry will help you fit the pieces of the relationshp puzzle together in a healthy way!

Larry gets LoveNotes. . . "When you told us that we both needed to be singing from the same page... it got our attention. Thank you for your invaluable coaching," - J. B., Fort Myers, FL

More info: http://www.CelebrateLove.com/relationshipcoaching.htm

Thank you to all who take the time to send us special e-mail requesting topics, etc., for our eZINE. We love hearing from you! Speak YOUR mind!? We would love to hear what topics YOU would most like to see covered in upcoming issues of the LoveNotes for Lovers eZINE. Send e-mail to Larry James

Be Inspired and Encouraged!

Larry's Relationship BLOG! - Periodically, Larry James will post random relationship thoughts, ideas, observations, insights, articles, rants, commentary, suggestions, tips and solutions for better relationships. Something new is posted about every four days! You are welcome and encouraged to post your comments on our BLOG. More than 460 FREE relationship articles!

Follow Larry James' Relationship Twitter!
Add Larry James as a "friend" on your Facebook page!

Facebook Logo
Twitter Logo

Featured Relationship Article

Read "What's This About Mid-life Crisis?" - Perhaps there are some biological changes that go on as we grow older, however my experience has taught me that those years we call mid-life are often when most of us begin to be uncomfortable with the direction our lives are taking. We know there must be more than this! We begin to self-inquire and often are confronted by our own stuff; the stuff that isn't working, and somehow it seems we are powerless to choose another course of action. Fear rears its ugly head. Some of us are afraid to change. We become anxious about the future.

Read the article. Go to:
http://celebratelove.wordpress.com/2012/05/02/powerful-beyond-measure-or-whats-this-about-mid-life-crisis/

For a fresh, daily dose of relationship potions
delicately served to you from the CelebrateLove.commissary!
Click here: http://www.CelebrateLove.com/potion.shtml.
Visit this page often and please pass the word to your friends!

LoveNote Link Daily Love Potion LoveNote Link

Featured Relationship "Book-of-the-Month"

Books make grrreat gifts for someone you love!

Rebuilding When Your Relationship Ends - Dr. Bruce Fisher, Ph.D. - Dr. Fisher, in words you can understand, fully explains the complex psychological process of grief, loss and recovery. It is easy and compelling to read. It opens the window immediately for you to understand what you are experiencing and how you can grow beyond the crises and emerge a healthy and happy individual.

Larry's Review: The hurt CAN heal. You CAN stop hurting NOW. Reading this book will help you more fully understand your feelings following the loss of someone you love. This is absolutely the most helpful book you can read especially if you are experiencing a divorce or relationship break-up. HIGHLY RECOMMENDED! Also available on cassette.

Rebuilding When Your Relationship Ends

Larry's Newest Book can be found at Business Networking HQ:
http://www.TenCommitmentsofNetworking.com
Visit Larry Business Networking BLOG:
http://www.NetworkingHQ.wordpress.com - Something NEW about Networking is posted every 4th day!

For hundreds of relationship books, videos, audios and music, visit Larry's Book Store.
http://www.CelebrateLove.com/larrysbookstore.htm

CelebrateIntimacy.com is the crème de la crème of intimacy Websites!

http://www.CelebrateIntimacy.com

Guy Finley's "Key Lessons" - The wisdom and wit of Guy Finley. Don't miss this opportunity to brighten your life! At every regular meeting at Guy's Foundation in southern Oregon, there's a special board in front of the class where the Key Lesson for that meeting is written out for everyone to consider before, during, and after the talk. Book mark this page and return every day for a breath of fresh air & something new to think about!

Sample: Only the mind quieted realizes its tendency to ensnare itself by considering its own imagined contents. When we look at life aright -- without taking thought for what we see, and keeping ourselves apart from a creeping knowledge that separates us from what is seen -- then there comes to us a new kind of freedom; we find ourselves no longer apart from life, but living within the uncompromising Presence of a Consciousness that cannot be made a captive of anything. To see the Emptiness of that Life we have created for ourselves in the absence of our creator is the beginning of our Rebirth.

Authors & Speakers Network

A&SNetLOGO150 Pass along Larry's Website especially for authors & speakers, featuring lots of resources, tips, books & articles (110 articles and growing!). Larry has independently published 4 books and offers "author/speaker coaching!"

Go to: http://www.AuthorsandSpeakersNetwork.com
Visit Larry's Authors & Speakers Network BLOG. Go to:
http://AuthorsandSpeakersNetwork.wordpress.com/

FREE Download of Larry's 25-page eBOOK, "How to Book Radio Shows and Be a Great Guest!" Go to: http://www.AuthorsandSpeakersNetwork.com/freeebook.html!

Relationship Humor

There is a new study about women and how they feel about their asses. The results were pretty interesting:

30% of women think their ass is too fat.

10% of women think their ass is too skinny.

The remaining 60% say they don't care, they love him, he's a good man, and they wouldn't trade him for the world.

Wedding ceremonies with romantic elegance and impeccable attention to detail.

Celebrate Intimate Weddings with professional speaker, author, relationship coach and ordained non-denominational minister Larry James. Larry James will travel to perform your wedding ceremony wherever your budget allows!

CelebrateIntimateWeddings.com provides everything you need for a successful wedding; planning checklists, articles, books, custom wedding ceremonies, pre-marital & post-marital coaching and more.

Larry James has been voted "Best Officiant" in the Greater Phoenix area for 2008 by Arizona's Finest Wedding Sites and Services Magazine!

2009, 2010 & 2011 Bride's Choice Award presented to Larry James by WeddingWire! Click here for details!

Bride's Choice Award

Wedding Chronicle logo
Check out Larry's "Award Winning" Wedding Ceremony!

Larry James has been selected as the "Best Officiant" in the Greater Phoenix area by The Wedding Chronicle's 2007, 2008 & 2009 Readers' Poll! - Read more!

Visit Larry's Wedding BLOG:
http://www.CelebrateIntimateWeddings.wordpress.com - Something NEW about Weddings is posted every 4th day!

LoveNote. . . "Throughout our engagement, we never ceased to be impressed by Larry's diligence and careful attention to detail. From our first meeting up until the wedding day, Larry kept us on track and made us feel comfortable. We knew the ceremony would be special, but in the end it surpassed our expectations. Larry managed to make us feel like we were the only two people in the room while still engaging our family and friends. He created the perfect combination of humor, romance and sincerity. Our guests are still raving! We are happy that Larry was a part of our special day and would certainly recommend his services to other couples." - Morgan & Si Robins

To view the Wedding Gallery, go to:
http://www.CelebrateIntimateWeddings.com/congratulations.html

FREE Articles for Your Publications & Website

Larry James has written numerous relationship articles available for reprint in magazines, periodicals, newsletters, newspapers, eZINEs, on the Internet or on your own website. You may use articles written by Larry James that are included in this eZINE or visit the "Relationship Articles Menu" on his website for a complete list. Send your request by e-mail and he will send you permission and a brief bio for publication with each article.

Relationship Articles MENU: http://www.CelebrateLove.com/articles.htm

For permission to reprint, click here: http://www.CelebrateLove.com/reprintarticles.htm.

Invite Larry James to Speak to Your Group

Larry is available to present keynotes and seminars for private and corporate functions and churches. http://www.CelebrateLove.com/anniversary.htm!

Contact Information & Advertising Rates

If you or someone you know would like to advertise in our eZINE, please send your inquiry to:

Larry James
CelebrateLove.com
P.O. Box 12695
Scottsdale, AZ 85267-2695

480-998-9411

http://www.CelebrateLove.com
Your feedback is always welcome!
Send e-mail to Larry James

There is a link at the bottom of this eZINE if you decide that you would rather not receive "LoveNotes for Lovers" in the future. We PROMISE to remove you from our e-mailing list immediately.

IMPORTANT:  Are we in your e-mail address book? So that you don't miss out on any issues of "LoveNotes for Lovers eZINE" to prevent this from happening, please copy and paste our "From" e-mail address. . .

Larry_James___CelebrateLove.com@mail.vresp.com

to your e-mail address book so it won't be tagged as no-no (junk) e-mail!

For assistance with various e-mail applications, click here to ensure delivery of these communications! This will "whitelist" or "safelist" our e-mail address, telling your hosting service that you definitely want to receive e-mail from our e-mail address. This will also ensure our eZINE won't go 'bye-bye' via your (sometimes overzealous) JUNK or TRASH folder. Thank you!

Your referrals are always appreciated, and are the major way we grow. Please pass this issue along to those you feel might enjoy it and feel it to be beneficial. You may want to include, at the top of your e-mail, instructions for them to receive our eZINE which would simply be for them to go to: http://www.CelebrateLove.com/ezine.htm. Thank you.

PAY IT FORWARD: I'm sure that there is at least one person you know who might benefit from receiving our "LoveNotes for Lovers" eZINE. So. . . spread the love. Forward this eZINE to all your friends and encourage them to de-stress, too, and request their own eZINE.

If you are receiving this issue as a "pass along" from a friend and would like to get your own free monthly copy, please complete the eZINE sign-up at http://www.CelebrateLove.com/ezine.htm. You can always be safely removed from the list at anytime.

Copyright © - Larry James. All Rights Reserved

Join Now!

backSubscribe - LoveNotes for Lovers eZINE nextnext
backLoveNotes for Lovers Archive Your Comments, Please!next

Purple Line

Please Visit Our Sponsors:

Hot stuff here! - Wedding stuff here! - Author & Speaker stuff here!

Ten Commitments of Networking: Creative Ways to Maximize Your Personal Connections here!

Intrested in Health & Wellness? Check out Isagenix!

Nightingale-Conant stuff here! - AudioGenerator stuff here! - Discount Dental Plan here!

More Hot stuff here! - Links! - Relationship BLOG - Wedding BLOG - Larry's MySpace - Larry's Facebook

Follow Larry's Relationship Twitter at: Larry's Twitter

Larry's: Networking BLOG


•    •    •


Purple Line

Copyright © - Larry James & CelebrateLove.com
Established 1987  -  Online 3/1996
Privacy Statement