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October 2007 - Issue #61  You received this issue of "LoveNotes for Lovers" eZINE because you completed the eZINE sign-up at: http://www.CelebrateLove.com/ezine.htm. If you would rather read this eZINE online, go to: http://www.CelebrateLove.com/ezine61.htm.
In this issue • A Personal Message from Larry James
LoveNote for Lovers. . . Working together in a love relationship to get your individual needs met and the mutual needs of the relationship and not have expectations about how those needs get met will always generate new things to talk about. Having expectations about how your needs get met is not only unrealistic it is an unhealthy attitude. For example, if I expect you to love me a certain way and your love doesn't show up that way for me, I will most likely be disappointed. A better way might be to have your need for being loved fulfilled by allowing your love partner to love you the way they love you. Being okay with how they love you creates a sense of adventure; it creates new and exciting possibilities for the two of you to experience together. Often challenges show up. However, when two people really love each other and are committed to work together, challenges like these create the kind of conversation that empowers both love partners to continue to self-inquire. They then choose to investigate their curiosities about what they can do to stand together, to be challenged by this new way of being and know that everything is going to be okay. LoveNote for Lovers. . . Feelings are always very real for the one who feels them. When your lover expresses feelings. . . validate them. Let them know that it is okay to feel that way, even when you disagree. When you invalidate your love partner's feelings, generally disagreement follows. Never argue with anyone's feelings. It's an argument you can never win. LoveNote for Lovers. . . Remember to flirt with your lover, the way you did when you first met. Toss out those subtle little signals that tell your lover you are still interested; signals that show you remember the real magic that lit the fire in the beginning. From the book, "LoveNotes for Lovers: Words That Make Music for Two Hearts Dancing!" by Larry James Sample more LoveNotes: http://www.CelebrateLove.com/lovenote.shtml
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Relationship Humor
Marriage is the mourning after the knot before.
Shotgun wedding: A case of wife or death.
If you want your spouse to listen and pay strict attention to every word you say, talk in your sleep.
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