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January 2009 - Issue #76
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In this issue

•  A Personal Message from Larry James
•  LoveNotes for Lovers
•  Featured Relationship Article - And if All Else Fails?
•  Relationship "Book-of-the-Month" - InterCourses: An Aphrodisiac Cookbook
•  Relationship Humor
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SMALL Larry James Pic A Personal Message from Larry James:

Just because we know something doesn't mean anything. Something can never really mean anything until we do something with it. We must do something - whatever it takes - to make our relationships the relationships we love being in. We must always carefully consider what action to take.

Action without thought is only thoughtless action. That rarely works. Knowing this does not mean our relationships will always be great. We have choice. Every choice has a consequence.

The dilemma is this: there are two people. That means we have two people making choices and there are a multitude of choices each of us could make. Each love partner is only and always responsible for their own choices.

Relationships are individual projects first - the one with ourselves - and mutually beneficial projects second - the one with ourselves and our lover. Taking responsibility for our own stuff is a wonderful gift we give ourselves and our love partner. Relationships take our constant attention; every day and every minute. It is when we forget this that problems begin.

DO something to make your relationship work better in 2009! Have a Prosperous New Year!

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  Maturity is the ability to live up to the responsibilities of a love relationship, and this means being dependable. It means keeping your word; it means living in your relationship as if your word really means something.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  In reality, anger is a derivative of and an expression of fear. To transcend or master fear, we must turn our back on it; exercise courage. Love cannot exist in the presence of fear. It is impossible for opposites to co-exist. They cannot occupy the same space at the same time. So. . . we drift. Back and forth. Love. Fear. Love. Fear.

We must learn to express love to ourselves and to others in the midst of upsets. Releasing anger in healthy ways proves we are capable of creative acts of wholeness. Healing is always around the corner. It shows up when we have the courage to let go of the anger and fully embrace love.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  Trust demands no withholds. It invites personal disclosure. When you trust the one you're with, you can step in front of the person you've been, allow your lover to see the real you and be more of your true self. You can more lovingly express how you think and feel when trust is present and feel more free to do so.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  You need others and you depend on yourself. Needing others is not a mistake. Giving up your responsibility for satisfying your needs is a mistake. Your need to stand alone must be tempered by your need to stand together.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  When misunderstandings surface, it is easy to misinterpret what is really going on. Remember that how you express your anger is being translated by someone who has no idea how you feel. It is as if love partners speak two different languages. It is often difficult to remember this when you are in the heat of battle. Wait for the dust to settle, then ask your lover to translate their feelings in a way that you can listen. . . with understanding.

From the book, "LoveNotes for Lovers: Words That Make Music for Two Hearts Dancing!" by Larry James

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Read ". . . And if All Else Fails?" - There is no shame in seeking help from someone qualified to give it. Most people resist change until they are backed against the wall; until they feel that there is nothing else they can do. Change takes courage! It means taking responsibility for your relationship and being brave enough to take that first step toward doing something different while you are still afraid.

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InterCourses InterCourses: An Aphrodisiac Cookbook - Martha Hopkins & Randall Lockridge - Forget Spanish fly or powdered rhino horn; if you want to get your lover in the mood, look no farther than your local supermarket. Strawberries, chocolate, asparagus - even coffee - have long been considered stimulants for the romantic appetite. More than 85 heart-melting dishes brought to the table, the bed, or wherever you might be entertaining.

Larry's Review: "InterCourses" will unleash your power of seduction and steal your innocence. It's an aphrodisiac; a romantic menu of words delicately served with delicious anticipation, love, sex and sensuality. Like a lover. . . you'll want to spend some time cuddling with this book! Love it!

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Sample: No one on this earth can be what you already are, so stop trying to imitate what you were never intended to be and start awakening to all that Life itself has made it possible for you to become.

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"Will you marry me, darling?" he asked.

Lisa smiled coyly and said, "Yes, if you'll buy me a mink."

Kurt thought for a moment and then replied, "Okay, it's a deal, but on one condition."

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