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Issue #86
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November 2009 - Issue #86
Publisher, Larry James - Author, Speaker, Relationship Coach

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In this issue

•  A Personal Message from Larry James
•  LoveNotes for Lovers
•  Featured Relationship Article - No More "Mr. Fix-it!" - For Men Only
•  Relationship "Book-of-the-Month" - Single and Living It!
•  Relationship Humor
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Tiny Larry James Pic A Personal Message from Larry James:

Instead of speaking only of what has been. . . revise your way of speaking about what you want and need in your relationship today. Pour all of your energy into speaking only good words about your relationship. So many times I hear partners speaking to their friends in a negative way about their partner. It you cannot say something good about them; it is better to say nothing at all. If you speak or think only of the problem, hopelessness and despair, you will get more of that.

Weigh your words. 500 of the most commonly used English words have 13,000 meanings. Choose your words carefully. They become your reality. Wherever your attention is centered, your thoughts will focus, and since action follows thought, the things you keep looking at and speaking about are going to determine what you will experience. Your relationship lives on the tip of your tongue.

Never say things to your partner that you know will trigger past bad experiences. To do so is antagonistic and just plain stupid. In this scenario, remember, a closed mouth gathers no foot.

Make an effort everyday to tell your partner how much you appreciate them. Talk tenderly. Use terms of endearment, like "Honey," "Sweetie," "Baby," etc. Say "thank you." On the way to the office? Say "Goodbye, sweetheart" instead of just "Goodbye." Whisper sweet nothings! Act loving toward each other daily and you will feel more loving toward your partner.

I hate the term "Fake it till you make it," however it's true that when you begin to visibly act more enthusiastic about your relationship, the enthusiasm is contagious. Talking the talk is one thing. Speak only good of your partner to yourself, to your partner and to others. Only good. Walking the walk should also be a high priority.

Nurture your partner with words of love, understanding, acceptance and forgiveness.

Nurture: To nourish, educate, grow or develop; cultivate.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  For Women Only - Be patient with your love partner when it comes to listening. Help him learn to listen by saying things worth listening to. In time he will learn how to share how he feels, openly and in a way that allows him to be vulnerable without fear. When this happens, initiate conversation that shows your appreciation of his new way of being. Patience and understanding are necessary.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  Affirmation - I see upsets in my relationship not only as an exterior circumstance to be remedied, but as an interior condition to be understood and healed.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  Two love partners, standing firm - together - can accomplish anything the two of them desire. The creative movement of mutual commitment can produce anything. . . joy, peace of mind, more love, great sex, understanding. . . anything! The unity of two, in agreement, does the work of angels.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  You are the architect of your own discomfort. The secret is to never wallow in the suffering any longer than is necessary to learn the lesson the suffering presents.

From the book, "LoveNotes for Lovers: Words That Make Music for Two Hearts Dancing!" by Larry James

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Featured Relationship Article

Read No More "Mr. Fix-it!" - For Men Only! - When your lover is hurting and tells you so, this is not a request for "Mr. Fix-it." First, she is not broken. Second, always remember, someone who is hurting only needs your love, support and understanding. It is human nature to want to work with, not against, someone who understands you.

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Single & Living It: Maximizing Your Single Life While Preparing For Marriage - Nadine Vazquez - Stop sabotaging relationships. "Single & Living It" exposes dysfunctions that ruins relationships and gives you tools to stop them. Also, you will really understand and embrace intimacy, commitment and change.

Larry's Review: - Single? Buy this book! Terrific!

Single & Living It: Maximizing Your Single Life While Preparing For Marriage

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Sample: Some people believe their continuing negativity is justifiable given the way their lives have gone, which is a lot like believing that whenever a dark cloud passes overhead it means our only option is to stand there shivering in its shadow.

Pass along Larry's Website especially for authors & speakers, featuring lots of resources, tips, books & articles. Larry has independently published 4 books and offers "author/speaker coaching!"

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Relationship Humor

Two antennas meet on a roof, fall in love, get married. The ceremony wasn't much but the reception was brilliant. (groan!)

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