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Issue #87
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December 2009 - Issue #87
Publisher, Larry James - Author, Speaker, Relationship Coach

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In this issue

•  A Personal Message from Larry James
•  LoveNotes for Lovers
•  Featured Relationship Article - Preventative Maintenance
•  Relationship "Book-of-the-Month" - The Gift of a Lifetime
•  Relationship Humor
•  Bride & Groom-of-the-Month! - View the photo gallery!
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Tiny Larry James Pic A Personal Message from Larry James:

Happy Holidays from the "Valley of the Sun," Scottsdale, Arizona!

Here's a terrific idea! When you are making out your Christmas card list this year, please send a special card to a serviceman at the following addrsses:

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LoveNote for Lovers. . .  When you have disagreements, watch for the appropriate opportunity to share what is really in your heart. Little, if any progress can be made during meltdown. Allow a time for cooling off. This is a time when you must work together to create a space for each love partner to express their feelings without any fear that it isn't safe to do so. Listen. Communicate. Give up your attachment to being right and settle for a win/win solution that serves both love partners equally.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  A love relationship anchored in unconditional love can survive the roughest storm. Trust puts you in the same boat. . . side-by-side. . . working on learning to trust, and trusting. . . together! Trust has you both rowing in the same direction.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  Affirmation - In a healthy love relationship there is always movement, at first toward intimacy, at other times toward withdrawal and distance. I am secure in my love relationship and never panic during a difficult phase of withdrawal. I unconditionally love my partner and remember my commitment to do whatever it takes to encourage the experience of balance in our love relationship.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  It is always possible for you to direct the energy of anger in another completely different direction, even though it may not seem so at the time. The same energy you expend on anger, when re-directed, can be put to use in a much more useful direction. Think about it. If you choose to shorten your attention span on what makes you angry, you can immediately put that same energy to use by focusing on the solution to the upset that caused the anger in the first place.

From the book, "LoveNotes for Lovers: Words That Make Music for Two Hearts Dancing!" by Larry James

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Featured Relationship Article

Read Preventative Maintenance - Don't allow your relationship to crash and burn. Perhaps there should be "black boxes" in relationships. That way when a major relationship crash occurs you would be able to analyze more correctly what caused the problem. Forensic experts know that in analyzing black boxes, any deviation in any sequence of events would have prevented the crash. That's good to know.

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Featured Relationship "Book-of-the-Month"

Books make grrreat gifts for someone you love!

The Gift of a Lifetime: Building a Marriage That Lasts - Barbara Peters, RN LPC - This book is the ideal guide for those contemplating marriage; those newly married; or those renewing their vows. Through counseling advice, and the acronyms "FACTS" and "FAITH" Barbara Peters outlines the steps needed to have a successful marriage. Barbara uses some case scenarios from her own practice to illustrate her message. Married couples may see some of their own problems discussed in the book, and find this is a map along the road to a happy marriage.

Larry's Review: - "The Gift of a Lifetime: Building a Marriage That Lasts" is a must-read for everyone who would like to add some sparkle to their relationship. Her carefully crafted words will fan the flames and help you get back on tract. Barbara Peters skillfully presents a treasure trove of tips, suggestions, and case studies that will help you find the answers you need. I am glad that therapists around the country share my desire that couples can have lifelong marriages. Barbara Peters is one of those therapists who has committed her talents to helping couples achieve that dream. Highly recommended! I am honored to have written the Foreword to "The Gift of a Lifetime."

The Gift of a Lifetime

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Guy Finley's "Key Lessons" - The wisdom and wit of Guy Finley. Don't miss this opportunity to brighten your life! At every regular meeting at Guy's Foundation in southern Oregon, there's a special board in front of the class where the Key Lesson for that meeting is written out for everyone to consider before, during, and after the talk. Book mark this page and return every day for a breath of fresh air & something new to think about!

Sample: When it comes to 'What should I do?' about the painful negative states we see in ourselves, here is all we need to know: what is condemned remains concealed; what is concealed never heals.

Pass along Larry's Website especially for authors & speakers, featuring lots of resources, tips, books & articles. Larry has independently published 4 books and offers "author/speaker coaching!"

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Relationship Humor

The other day, my wife and I got into some petty argument. (I say it was petty. She would say it was Armageddon). As is our nature, neither of us would admit the possibility that we might be in error.

To her credit, she finally said, "Look, I'll tell you what. I'll admit I'm wrong if you admit I was right."

"Fine," I said.

She took a deep breath, looked me in the eye and said, "I'm wrong."

I grinned and replied, "You're right."

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LoveNote. . . "Thank you for making our wedding such a wonderful moment, one which we will always cherish. You went out of your way to make our wedding day a special one. We appreciate the photos that you took, they were great. We could not have found a better Officiant. You are truly the best at what you do." Thanks Again, Still and Always We'll Be... Celebrating Love, Tiffany and Bryan Smith

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