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Issue #92
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May 2010 - Issue #92
Publisher, Larry James - Author, Speaker, Relationship Coach

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In this issue

•  A Personal Message from Larry James
•  LoveNotes for Lovers
•  Featured Relationship Article - Domestic Violence Sucks!
•  Relationship "Book-of-the-Month" - How to Capture the Minds of Kids and Get Them to Do the Right Thing Even When You're Not Looking
•  Relationship Humor
•  Bride & Groom-of-the-Month! - View their wedding gallery!
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•  Contact Information - Tell us what you like best about LoveNotes for Lovers

Tiny Larry James Pic A Personal Message from Larry James:

Love and verbal or physical abuse are incompatible.

Someone who says they love you and continues to abuse you only thinks they need you. The truth is they will squeeze the life out of the relationship.

The outcome is predictable. The person who intimidates with threats in one breath and attempts to persuade with promises of undying love the next is emotionally and mentally unstable. The sick have forgotten how to be well.

Courage is called for. Refuse to become a part of the illness. Recognize its red flags. Distance yourself from such a person and seek help for yourself.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  Feelings are always very real for the one who feels them. When your lover expresses feelings. . . validate them. Let them know that it is okay to feel that way, even when you disagree. When you invalidate your love partner's feelings, generally disagreement follows. Never argue with anyone's feelings. It's an argument you can never win.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  It's okay to feel angry. It is not okay to be consumed with anger. Anger is not something to be contained; it is something to be released. Express it with this caveat: consider the consequences of its power. Anger is something that can hurt if expressed with the intention to get even. Often we inflict our feelings of anger on the ones we love the most. Not a good idea. Everyone feels angry occasionally and everyone in the relationship feels its effect.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  The joyful expression of love produces an extraordinary freedom to create a nurturing relationship that supports individual accountability, well being, self-expression and fulfillment. Such an exciting relationship is only possible when integrity is the foundation of the relationship. A life together, full of passion and all the elements that encourage the full expression of unconditional love is worthy of pursuit.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  You need others and you depend on yourself. Needing others is not a mistake. Giving up your responsibility for satisfying your needs is a mistake. Your need to stand alone must be tempered by your need to stand together.

From the book, "LoveNotes for Lovers: Words That Make Music for Two Hearts Dancing!" by Larry James

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Read "Domestic Violence Sucks!" - Over 1,300 women are killed each year by their husbands, ex-husbands, or boyfriends! An estimated three to four million women each year silently endure abuse or travel to hospital emergency rooms following an assault by their husbands or partners. In Canada, 1 woman is killed every 3 days by a man known to her.

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Featured Relationship "Book-of-the-Month"

Books make grrreat gifts for someone you love!

How to Capture the Minds of Kids and Get Them to Do the Right Thing Even When You're Not Looking - Ken Varga - This book helps adults learn how to communicate with children. Highly motivational and very practical techniques often used in business communications and sales but rarely used one to one with adult/child. Ken is a highly successful businessperson who learned most of his success techniques when he was told as a very young child that he had a life-time disability. His parents were told he would be dependent on them for the rest of his life. He nor his parents accepted this. He learned to focus his mind on what he wanted - to be free of his disability and be normal. He accomplished his goal by the 8th grade and learned that success is much more mind ordered than circumstance ordered.

Larry's Review: What a great book! Parents who read this book will definitely improve their communications with their children.

How to Capture the Minds of Kids

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Sample: Believing that someone who keeps on hurting you will have a change of heart and see the error of his ways, is like hanging a sign on your basement wall, "All rodents stay out," and hoping they will read it and obey!

Pass along Larry's Website especially for authors & speakers, featuring lots of resources, tips, books & articles. Larry has independently published 4 books and offers "author/speaker coaching!"

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LoveNote. . . "Larry has been a DREAM to work with! One of my very first weddings under the Sacred Moment Weddings name was one I did with him more than 3 years ago! I also did a wedding with Larry last May and I can't WAIT to do another one with him! Why? Because he is such a calming spirit! Couples can't help but relax around him. He's funny, witty, accomodating and most of all a true professional! Trust me... you won't be disappointed!" - Wendy Robinson, Wedding Consultant, Sacred Moment Weddings and Events

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