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Issue #96
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September 2010 - Issue #96
Publisher, Larry James - Author, Speaker, Relationship Coach

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In this issue

•  A Personal Message from Larry James
•  LoveNotes for Lovers
•  Featured Relationship Article - "Questions, Questions and More Questions" - For Singles Only
•  Relationship "Book-of-the-Month" - How to Behave So Your Children Will, Too!
•  Relationship Humor
•  Bride & Groom-of-the-Month! - View their photo gallery!
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Tiny Larry James Pic A Personal Message from Larry James:

Talk the Talk - Instead of speaking only of what has been. . . revise your way of speaking about what you want and need in your relationship today. Pour all of your energy into speaking only good words about your relationship. So many times I hear partners speaking to their friends in a negative way about their partner. It you cannot say something good about them; it is better to say nothing at all. If you speak or think only of the problem, hopelessness and despair, you will get more of that.

Weigh your words. 500 of the most commonly used English words have 13,000 meanings. Choose your words carefully. They become your reality. Wherever your attention is centered, your thoughts will focus, and since action follows thought, the things you keep looking at and speaking about are going to determine what you will experience. Your relationship lives on the tip of your tongue.

Never say things to your partner that you know will trigger past bad experiences. To do so is antagonistic and just plain stupid. In this scenario, remember, a closed mouth gathers no foot.

Make an effort everyday to tell your partner how much you appreciate them. Talk tenderly. Use terms of endearment, like "Honey," "Sweetie," "Baby," etc. Say "thank you." On the way to the office? Say "Goodbye, sweetheart" instead of just "Goodbye." Whisper sweet nothings! Act loving toward each other daily and you will feel more loving toward your partner.

I hate the term "Fake it till you make it," however it's true that when you begin to visibly act more enthusiastic about your relationship, the enthusiasm is contagious. Talking the talk is one thing. Speak only good of your partner to yourself, to your partner and to others. Only good. Walking the walk should also be a high priority.

Nurture your partner with words of love, understanding, acceptance and forgiveness. Nurture: To nourish, educate, grow or develop; cultivate.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  Love and verbal or physical abuse are incompatible. Someone who says they love you and continues to abuse you only thinks they need you. The truth is they will squeeze the life out of the relationship. The outcome is predictable.

The person who intimidates with threats in one breath and attempts to persuade with promises of undying love the next is emotionally and mentally unstable. The sick have forgotten how to be well. Courage is called for. Refuse to become a part of the illness. Recognize its red flags. Distance yourself from such a person and seek help for yourself.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  Use your mistakes as avenues through which you can expand your awareness, knowledge and understanding. Many relationship difficulties are born out of a lack of understanding.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  Forgiveness is for your benefit. It gives you the freedom to move forward. Telling someone you forgive them is a bonus and it is not necessary for forgiveness to be complete. Forgiveness will release you from all personal suffering and feelings of loss. Forgiveness is a mental attitude. Once convinced of its own idea, forgiveness is complete; freedom follows.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  Affirmation - I have a love partner who is supportive of us making key choices together, fully listening to and learning from what each love partner has to say.

From the book, "LoveNotes for Lovers: Words That Make Music for Two Hearts Dancing!" by Larry James

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Don't like the one you see in the mirror? It CAN and will affect your relationship!

girl smashing mirror Larry james offers Relationship Coaching for both singles who want a committed relationship, and couples who need help regaining that closeness they once felt in their relationship, or who want to deepen their levels of intimacy.

Larry James is a "solution finder." He is available by telephone for personal relationship coaching for high functioning singles and married couples; people who are committed to "doing" whatever it takes to make their relationships work. Mature people know their relationships can always be better. A healthier love relationship is the goal.

Call Larry James for a very private relationship coaching session and experience lots of "a-ha's!" Call for a daytime or evening coaching appointment - 800-725-9223 (Greater Phoenix area - 480-998-9411). Check out Larry's Personal Guarantee! Results may include an increased passion for Love and romance!

The fringe benefit? A more loving, peaceful, happy relationship. Larry will help you fit the pieces of the relationshp puzzle together in a healthy way!

Larry gets LoveNotes. . . "I was listening to Michael Jackson sing 'Man in the Mirror' while I was shaving several weeks ago and suddenly stopped shaving and took a good look at myself. I didn't like the man I saw! Long story short, my phone call to you stopped me in my tracks. You helped me realize that if I didn't make some changes my wife of 28 years would probably leave me. Thank you, Larry, from the bottom of my heart. Things are really much better now." - W.T., Lexington, KY

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Thank you to all who take the time to send us special e-mail requesting topics, etc., for our eZINE. We love hearing from you! Speak YOUR mind!? We would love to hear what topics YOU would most like to see covered in upcoming issues of the LoveNotes for Lovers eZINE. Send e-mail to Larry James

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How to Behave So Your Children Will, Too! - Sal Severe, Ph.D. - A collection of entertaining stories and practical ideas gathered from real parents. As seen on the "Learning Channel" and "Oprah."

Larry's Review: Wish I'd had this book before my daughter left the nest! What a wonderful collection of lessons that teach parents to "grow up" so they can teach by example rather than "wing it!" Where was this book when I needed it? I once explained my behavior as a father to my daughter by saying, "I did the best I could. I didn't go to Daddy School." If you have children, you gotta read this book. This book IS Mommy and Daddy School!

How to Behave So Your Children Will, Too!
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Guy Finley's "Key Lessons" - The wisdom and wit of Guy Finley. Don't miss this opportunity to brighten your life! At every regular meeting at Guy's Foundation in southern Oregon, there's a special board in front of the class where the Key Lesson for that meeting is written out for everyone to consider before, during, and after the talk. Book mark this page and return every day for a breath of fresh air & something new to think about!

Sample: To speak of how others should change, in order to heal our world of its growing unkindness, without first looking into ourselves to see where we are a part of this pain, is worse than hypocrisy. The voice of this deluded self finds it easier to condemn the darkness spreading out from its own feet than to embrace the Light that lives just above it: a Light that alone is capable of revealing and healing the source of this secret rift in the soul.

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Relationship Humor

On their 40th wedding anniversary and during the banquet celebrating it, Tom was asked to give his friends a brief account of the benefits of a marriage of such long duration. laughing man

"Tell us Tom, just what is it you have learned from all those wonderful years with your wife?"

Tom responds, "Well, I've learned that marriage is the best teacher of all. It teaches you loyalty, forbearance, meekness, self-restraint, forgiveness --and a great many other qualities you wouldn't have needed if you'd stayed single."

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LoveNote. . . "Larry, we are just as madly in love today as a year ago. Thank you for making our wedding so special. It was a beautiful ceremony. My grandpa even commented that it was just as good as a "church" wedding which is saying a lot since he wasn't so fond of our outdoor plans. You really do a great job. Thank you again. God bless you." Toni and Chris Dillon - Wedding: April 3, 2009

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