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Issue #98
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November 2010 - Issue #98
Publisher, Larry James - Author, Speaker, Relationship Coach

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In this issue

•  A Personal Message from Larry James
•  LoveNotes for Lovers
•  Featured Relationship Article - Change Your Thinking. . .
•  Relationship "Book-of-the-Month" - Escaping Emotional Entrapment: Freedom From Negative Thinking and Unhealthy Emotions
•  Relationship Humor
•  Bride & Groom-of-the-Month! - View their photo gallery!
•  Guy Finley's "Key Lesson"
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•  Contact Information - Tell us what you like best about LoveNotes for Lovers

Tiny Larry James Pic A Personal Message from Larry James:

Working together in a love relationship to get your individual needs met and the mutual needs of the relationship and not have expectations about how those needs get met will always generate new things to talk about. Having expectations about how your needs get met is not only unrealistic it is an unhealthy attitude.

For example, if I expect you to love me a certain way and your love doesn't show up that way for me, I will most likely be disappointed. A better way might be to have your need for being loved fulfilled by allowing your love partner to love you the way they love you. Being okay with how they love you creates a sense of adventure; it creates new and exciting possibilities for the two of you to experience together. Often challenges show up.

However, when two people really love each other and are committed to work together, challenges like these create the kind of conversation that empowers both love partners to continue to self-inquire. They then choose to investigate their curiosities about what they can do to stand together, to be challenged by this new way of being and know that everything is going to be okay.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  Open and intimate conversation is the only way you can avoid the mistake of only giving what you would like to receive instead of giving what your love partner really needs. Negotiate for what you both want and need and respect the differences.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  Affirmation For Men Only - I cultivate transparency of myself by being a master in the art of self-disclosure. I know that when the inclination to reveal myself to the one I love is blocked, I close myself to her and experience emotional difficulties. I promise to never hide behind a facade.

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  A determination to resolve conflict by conversation offers a chance for healing and promotes the opportunity to become closer to the one you love. Cherish your differences. They are there for a purpose. Learn from them by learning to freely discuss them. Withhold your disapproval. Listen with acceptance and understanding. Conversation occurs when someone is speaking and someone is listening. Being an attentive listener often offers an opportunity for healing and suggests a deeper level of love than simply saying, "I love you!"

LoveNote for Lovers. . .  For Singles Only ~ Make having a great relationship with yourself your number one priority. Spend time working on you. It is a prerequisite to having a healthy love relationship with someone else. Work on developing your own self as an individual. Reinvent a relationship with yourself. Make it a new and exciting relationship; one you can be proud to carry over into your next relationship with someone else. Allow a time for healing the hurts of the past. Nobody wants damaged goods.

From the book, "LoveNotes for Lovers: Words That Make Music for Two Hearts Dancing!" by Larry James

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Larry James is a "solution finder." He is available by telephone for personal relationship coaching for high functioning singles and married couples; people who are committed to "doing" whatever it takes to make their relationships work. Mature people know their relationships can always be better. A healthier love relationship is the goal.

Call Larry James for a very private relationship coaching session and experience lots of "a-ha's!" Call for a daytime or evening coaching appointment - 800-725-9223 (Greater Phoenix area - 480-998-9411). Check out Larry's Personal Guarantee! Results may include an increased passion for Love and romance!

The fringe benefit? A more loving, peaceful, happy relationship. Larry will help you fit the pieces of the relationshp puzzle together in a healthy way!

Larry gets LoveNotes. . . "Before we called you for coaching, we both felt like our relationship was going down for the 3rd time! You were a referral from one of our friends. So glad we called. Thank you again for your wise words." - J.M., Topeka, KS

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Featured Relationship Article

Read "Change Your Thinking. . ." - When your relationship begins to stray off course it's time to pay attention. A problem occurs when there is a difference between what "should be" and what "is. The first realization that something is not as you want it to be is an important first step, but once you have identified the problem, the faster you are able to turn your attention in the direction of a solution, the better.

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Escaping Emotional Entrapment: Freedom From Negative Thinking and Unhealthy Emotions - Daniel Rutley - Break those bonds that bind you in worry, guild and anger. Free yourself and live the life that you deserve. A useful, dynamic approach to help you gain control of your emotions, your actions and ultimately your life.

Larry's Review: If your tangled thinking and your befuddled emotions have your life in lock-up, Daniel Rutley's experienced counsel in "Entrapment" will help banish self-doubt, rejuvenate your energy level, unshackle your enthusiasm and guide you to achievable, long lasting results and a joy that is unconfined.

Escaping Emotioinal Entrapment

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Guy Finley's "Key Lessons" - The wisdom and wit of Guy Finley. Don't miss this opportunity to brighten your life! At every regular meeting at Guy's Foundation in southern Oregon, there's a special board in front of the class where the Key Lesson for that meeting is written out for everyone to consider before, during, and after the talk. Book mark this page and return every day for a breath of fresh air & something new to think about!

Sample: Listening to your own mind give you "good reasons" why you should be fearful over unexpected events is just like being friends with someone who thinks it's funny to find new ways to hurt you!

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Relationship Humor

A little boy was in a relative's wedding. As he was coming down the aisle, he would take two steps, stop, and turn to the crowd. While facing the crowd, he would put his hands up like claws and roar. So it went - step, step, ROAR; step, step, ROAR; all the way down the aisle. As you can imagine, the crowd was near tears from laughing so hard by the time he reached the pulpit. When asked what he was doing the child sniffed and said, "I was being the Ring Bear."

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LoveNote. . . "It was a pleasure to work with you as well. In this day and age it is nice to see a minister who takes the time to really get to know his clients. I have never had an officiant who was not a personal friend of the family's stay around for a reception. That goes to show me that you really do care about the unity of marriage and the people you join in marriage. I look forward to see you again. I have attached our current recommended vendors list and you have been added to it." - Tracy Elliott, Banquet Manager, Superstition Mountain Golf & Country Club, Gold Canyon, AZ

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