He's married. You are dating a married man. You are "really" fooling yourself.
Think about this: What are you afraid of? He may be separated from his wife, but he is still married
and until he decides to divorce, he is unavailable for dating. That's pretty safe for you, eh? As
long as he is married, you don't have to worry about commitment. This tells me a lot about what you
think of yourself.
Why would you want to date someone who is married and incomplete with his current relationship?
Talk about baggage! He's got it. I'm sure that upon careful examination by you, you have experienced
some of the issues he had and may still be having with his wife.
If you are sleeping with him, here's something else to think about. He has yet to tell you he loves
you. Perhaps he is in "lust" with you. If it were me, I would be feeling a bit used by now.
It is a colossal mistake to date a married man. Further, it is an unhealthy relationship to be in. His
mistake is to date you before his divorce. Can you imagine the lessons he is teaching his children? How
can you be a part of that?
He needs to be alone for awhile, love and spend time with his children and to work through the issues
that were a cause of the separation. He also needs to accept full responsibility for his share of the
problems he and his wife experienced. He cannot appropriately do this when he is in another relationship
with you. Time needs to pass before he dates anyone. Healing takes time.
Stop dating married men. Tell this one you care, however you know it is wrong and until he is divorced,
you will be dating others. I'm sure there are many eligible "single" men available to you.
Additional resource: The 3 Biggest Mistakes
Singles Make and How to Avoid Them.