Getting married too young is only an opinion and perhaps even an excuse to avoid confronting the real problem.
It is never a good reason to leave a marriage. We are suppose to LEARN from our mistakes, not run from them.
I suspect there is a deeper problem that may be troubling him.
Of course it is possible to have feelings like this and "still remain married." Our feelings help us to
discover ourselves. They provide clues and insights into who we are and often become the catalyst for
re-inventing ourselves. The energy for change is inspired by the emotional honesty we express through our feelings.
A healthy, committed love partner will work on the problem, rather than hold on to being right about it
and walk away. The same energy we use to stay stuck in the problem is the same energy we need to create our
future. The extent to which we cling to the problem is the extent to which we are blocked in receiving what
we truly want in a love relationship.
Mature love partners permit each other the freedom to pursue their individual interests and friends without
restriction. This is when trust presents itself. Heart-to-heart communication requires an emotional atmosphere
of caring, safety, and trust. Mature love allows this level of separateness to bring lovers closer together.
In this scenario separateness is perceived as a bond. . . not a wedge. It encourages love partners to
celebrate their own uniqueness.
When he is willing to talk. . . be a committed listener! Express no "Yeah, buts. . ." Only listen.
Patience and understanding are a virtue. Anyone convinced against their will is most likely to continue
to hold on to THEIR opionion. If you push for a quick answer. . . you may push him out of your life. If he
requires time and space, give it.
Therapy is always a wise choice. I suggest that you both look for answers TOGETHER in the presence of a
professional therapist. Perhaps the REAL reason may surface. Then you can both work on a solution together.
Two love partners, standing firm - together - can accomplish anything the two of them desire. The creative
movement of mutual commitment can produce anything; joy, peace of mind, more love, great sex,
understanding. . . anything! The unity of two, in agreement, does the work of angels.
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