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"I recently ended a 7 year marriage and decided to read your book, How to Really Love the One You're With. Your book reinforced my feelings about the commitment and effort that are necessary to make a marriage work. It also reinforced the effort that I made to make my marriage work and that my decision to leave was the right one.

Your book was very insightful and helped me to understand that when two people commit to giving 100% of themselves, their marriage can be uplifting and has a good chance of working.

As you have suggested in your book, I will follow up with Bruce Fisher's book, "Rebuilding When Your Relationship Ends."

Thanks so much for sharing your experiences, wisdom and insight. I greatly enjoyed your book." - Frank D.

"How to Really Love the One You're With" is a book for solo singles, singles with partners and married couples! The one you're with is the one you see in the mirror every morning! If you are a couple, the one you're with is you and your partner!
"How to Really Love the One You're With" is a revealing and personally empowering look at self-liberating insights that will assist you in achieving a healthy love relationship anchored in unconditional love. Its' wisdom will inspire you to deeper levels of self-acceptance and understanding. These words of love will benefit anyone; married or single; whether couples already in a committed relationship or singles who may be in search of a healthy love relationship.
Larry James has transformed words of love into a message of hope that offers encouragement, inspiration and the opportunity for enlightenment in relationships. He presents a priceless treasury of inspiring and insightful thoughts, ideas, indispensable guidelines and reflections on how to really love the one you're with. 312 pages.
"How to Really Love the One You're With" is Larry's best selling book and is an "easy-read" with 57 topics on the most important areas of love relationships, including:

  • achieving unconditional love, commitment, forgiveness, acceptance, support, creating space between partners, saying "No" to the past, becoming friends and lovers, communications, the importance of truly listening to what your partner really says, planned activities together, making love, looking out for #1, trust, maturity in relationships, resolving conflict, knowing what turns you on and many more.
Several topics deal with preparing yourself for love if you have recently come from a relationship as a result of death, divorce or separation. Enjoy reading a few excerpts that can be found in the Relationship Articles MENU before you buy the book!

Included with each topic are quotations (281 in all) from various relationship experts about the importance of healthy love relationships as they relate to that topic. Larry calls them "LoveNotes." You will love 'em!

Read this amazing letter from a woman whose marriage was transformed by putting the ideas she learned in this book to use in her relationship!

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Want to read some of the book before you buy it? Many of the articles listed in the "Relationship Articles Menu" feature topics from this book. Click here.

"Larry James speaks from the heart. His words carefully craft a message of hope that inspires couples to work together in a spirit of love and understanding. The powerful effect of his work in the area of relationships can change your life!"

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